Divorce coach? Mmm that sounds sceptical...

As I recently launched my new venture as a divorce coach, the response has been mixed, understandably so. What is divorce coaching? How can a divorce coach assist? Why should someone have a divorce coach on their side? All valid questions that this article will explore further.

Divorce can be a complex, high conflict and emotionally driven situation. With fear being the most expensive aspect in divorce. You can easily waste time, money, and emotional energy by pursuing things that are not important by reacting to what is going on around you. Being prepared and informed keeps you focused.

Some questions to ask yourself:

1. Are you are confused and don’t understand the process?

2. Are you are feeling emotional and vulnerable?

3. Are you overwhelmed by the paperwork, financials, and legal jargon?

4. Are you concerned about the children?

The above questions are valid. One more question, are you sure of where to start?

If not, then you may want to consider hiring a divorce coach.

‘Divorce coaching is a flexible, goal-oriented process designed to support, motivate, and guide people going through divorce to help them make the best possible decisions for their future.’  

Who am I?

You will get a partner who meets you where you are, guides you through the obstacles of divorce, and helps you process all the difficult aspects that comes along with it, so you can confidently plan and create a post-divorce life that achieves your full potential.

As your coach:

1. I will not tell you what to do but rather work with you so you can continue to develop further self-awareness, subsequently you are able to make good decisions.

2. I will help you work through the practical and emotional aspects of your separation, answer questions you have on the process and help you focus on the issues at hand.

3. I will provide you with clarity and help you understand the process so you can be organised and work towards your desired outcomes.

4. I assist my clients approach their separation with confidence, self-assurance and trust, consequently this reduces stress.

5. I am not a therapist nor counsellor, I don't have training in those fields, rather I will serve as an objective third party trained to prepare you and help you identify what you want and need. I guide and assist you to discover your best-self.

6. It is all about strategy and execution - I will assist you to identify your goals, envision what the future will look like, plan and work towards it.

Why should you hire a divorce coach?

1. To assist you manage the conflict and minimise it, rather than escalate the dispute, and communicate effectively with your partner.

2. To help you identify your interests, needs, goals, and values, establish a plan to realise your potential and make the best possible decisions.

3. To educate you on the legal and mediation options and help you be organised at every stage.

4. To assist you when choosing a lawyer and effectively managing your time with them by asking the right questions - consequently this will help you save money on legal fees.

5. To guide you in creating a detailed parenting plan that works for all parties involved.

6. To help you navigate the rollercoaster of emotions , lend a listening ear without judgement and be your accountability partner.

Still Curious?

The best way to find out more is to have a consultation with me. I offer a complimentary, 30-minute consultation session so we can have a chat to learn more about what issues you are experiencing. I will answer any questions you have about coaching and how it might provide the divorce help you need.

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